I've been married to one guy for 31 years, he's still my groom, my best friend, and everything I ever wanted in a man. We've been poly in nature our entire lives together. We love to laugh, cuddle, read, write, sing, dance and whatever else comes our way. While we are happily poly, we've decided that a live in poly mate is not something we can do, so we are exploring the concept of polyamoury to see if that is a fit for us. We know we'll be committed and monogamous with our one person, when we find her, loving our third is something that comes naturally to us both and we're not swingers, sex without love and committment holds no value, but with age and health issues and established personalities a 24/7 physical live in situation is not possible either. I hope to be able to provide friendship, help and a differing viewpoint when necessary, because this site really is a second home to us as well.